Subtitled: Are our allies blind? Or are they really allies?

First, a white “feminist” writer writes something that sure seems like appropriation. But she writes in a vacuum, because she doesn’t mention any women of color that went before her! No, seriously!

This was the preliminary book cover by this “feminist” writer. After expressions of concern from some folks about racist imagery, the cover was changed. But of course it didn’t go down easy.

Good to know what the joy-killing narrative is going to be. My money was on “pornographic”. Shows my guessing skills.

(Anti-racists! Joy-Killers!) and

Well, I knew people would complain about something, since they have to. I’ll admit, I didn’t see “racist” coming. But I knew it would be something. I seriously thought it would be a rehash of the Jessica thing, with “too sexy” being it.

And that’s my last comment on it. I knew it would be something, since liberals take the phrase “we have seen the enemy and it is us” as a maxim to live up to. I just need to hone my guessing skills.

So the cover gets changed, but people can’t stop making little digs about this at the writer’s blog:

I’m very disappointed Amanda. Don’t you realize the stereotype that crocodiles have historically represented within the…

So then the book comes out. Here is an image inside the book with the revised cover. (From Dear White Feminists, Quit Fucking Up)

I’m not even sure what to say about this. First the writer gets dragged kicking and screaming into acknowledging the racism of the cover. But then we find that the images inside are just as bad. So what do we deduce from this? Was she incapable of seeing the racism unless it was directly pointed out to her? What about the publishers and everybody else who undoubtedly saw the proofs of the book?

I have to believe it just never even occurred to her.

But the defensiveness isn’t a good sign.

Here are the other two, post titles on a “progressive” blog that mock the way some people think Asians speak:

“Horry Kow, that’s racist!”

“Me Reary Rikey the Superbowl!”

Exactly how did those titles escape almost everybody’s attention? This is a serious question, I really want to know. The blogowner came by, apologized and said that he’d changed the titles, but the titles remain the same racist spew on other blogs where there are cross-posts.

When I see ally behavior like this, I have to wonder if it isn’t a way of telling people of color who’s in charge. That’s a pretty cynical take, I guess. A more charitable take is that white people don’t apply conceptual understandings of racism but rather learn lessons one at a time for every single issue.